Watch the full video version of this teaching on YouTube. What’s the difference between a rough patch and a toxic relationship? You’ve probably said it to yourself more times than you can count. “Every marriage goes through hard seasons.” Maybe someone else said it to you. Your mom, your pastor, a friend trying to be…
Watch the full video version of this teaching on YouTube. God hates divorce. You’ve heard it before. Maybe from a pastor. Maybe from your mother. Maybe from a friend who meant well and had no idea what her words would do to you later, alone, at 2am, replaying every hard year of your marriage. “God…
What is a toxic Christian Marriage? If you typed ‘toxic Christian marriage’ into a search bar today, I need you to know something before we go any further. The fact that you’re asking the question means you already know something is wrong. You don’t search for answers to questions you haven’t already started to ask…
As sure as the sun rises and sets each day, you will have periods in your life when things are just not going your way. In reality, life is basically a constant fluctuation of emotional highs and lows. While most of our time is spent in the fairly even, mundane state of emotional normalcy, this…
One of the fastest ways to feel confused in a relationship is when someone’s words and actions don’t match. They say one thing. But they consistently do another. And somehow, you end up questioning yourself instead of questioning the inconsistency. That right there is the part I need you to catch. Because you didn’t create…
You keep telling yourself you’re confused. But deep down… you already know something isn’t right. The problem isn’t that you don’t have clarity. The problem is that you keep overriding what you see. I want you to sit with that for a second before you keep reading. Because if you came here looking for someone…
Is God ignoring my prayers about my marriage? You have prayed. You have asked God for wisdom. You have been faithful, showing up, doing everything you know to do. And yet here you are, still feeling stuck. Still uncertain. Still waiting for something to shift or change or become clear. That can leave you wondering…
Learning how to tell the difference between God’s guidance and your own fear, anxiety, or guilt is one of the most important things you can do in this season. So let’s talk about it. You’ve been praying. You’ve been thinking. You’ve been going back and forth so many times in your head that you don’t…
Why can’t I hear God clearly right now? Let me ask you something. Have you been praying and praying, asking God to give you direction in your marriage, and yet you still feel stuck? You’re seeking wisdom, you’re in your Bible, you’re on your knees, and yet clarity feels like it’s on the other side…
How do you actually hear God’s voice when everyone else is screaming? When you’re in a toxic marriage, everyone has an opinion about what you should do. Your mom says, “Marriage is hard, just stick it out.” Your best friend says, “You deserve better, leave him.” Your pastor quotes Malachi 2:16 about how God hates…